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I know that’s right…
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Love it :)
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Brown Girls And Bois: Relationship wisdom for the day 
NOTE: This post is directed towards the monogamous.
There are really only two reasons why someone won’t commit to you: either they’re in a bad place emotionally, or you’re not the right person. Whichever the case, you need to break up with them and move on.
In the first…
I can so relate to this
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Forever and a day
Has passed amongst us and I have yet to greet you with my presence. I do apologize for that. I’ve been taking time & moments out for myself more so lately than before. The need to ‘recoup’ has been a definite must. It’s hard trying to get my thoughts of my wants & needs into perspective when everyone surrounding me is overflowing me with great advice but I have always believed that the answer to the questions are deep within US. We tend to look outside and continuously ask and ask…intending to find that ‘one’ answer when in truth/reality…you have let you think for you. Be quiet enough sometimes to hear what it is you truly want/need from/in life. Not everyone’s advice may work in ur favor. Altho close friends and family may have an idea as to what may be the best solution for you…no one truly knows you better than you know yourself. Obstacles may throw us off many times in our life but we need to learn and some of us learn the hard way. We need to find our own balance, niche, home & comfort zone. Each one of us needs to find our home front when things get rough.
Just…be quiet enough. Once you’ve achieved that level…you listen & the answer you’ve been searching & longing for will come to you. Be quiet to hear it & patient enough to wait for it
late nite ramble
It’s crazy how the mind works. Especially when you realize what you may lose before you even begin to lose it.
Remember the mind is a terrible thing to waste. Think before you speak, act and move. Every action is followed by a reaction. Good or bad…THINK every time.
That is all…
p.s.-thank u ju for your last posts…they’ve been really insightful. *HUGS*
So many times in relationships we push & push for our significant other to let us in and tell us everything that is on their mind. We dont even realize that we could possibly be part of the problem by not allowing that person to work things out in their own mind before coming to us about it. Maybe they truly dont want to talk about it or maybe they just need a minute to get their thoughts together so that when they do decide to speak it will make sense to us.
Being in a relationship and knowing when to continually push your way into their thoughts or knowing when to just fall back and allow them space is probably one of the trickiest parts of being with someone. We tend to feel like we are being pushed away or that the other person is not letting us in and in some instances that might also be the case. Yet, we have to learn our partner so that we can know how to deal accordingly. Its not always going to be easy and its going to require a lot of patience but the end result will hopefully be a more secure, more open relationship.
People like myself tend to shut down when to many things around me are going on and I dont know how to deal. I usually pull back into my own thoughts and ultimately pull away from my partner. Im learning as I get older and as I take my relationships to new depths that this is not only unfair to the people around me but also unfair to myself because Im not allowing someone to be truly there for me. In a way I feel like I am sheltering those closest to me from my problems by trying to deal with them on my own but really Im showing them that I dont trust them enough to help me when I truly need them most. I never want someone to make me feel that way and im continually working towards opening up more and allowing myself to trust more.
This is true. But how long does one remain patient when the other half doesn’t give back? Just curious
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